THE PERSEVERATOR'S APPROACH TO PURCHASING, FASHION AND PERSONAL STYLE
As a Perseverator, the sartorial struggle is real. Fashion feels like a high stakes game that rarely seems worth the risk. You dream of having a wardrobe that TRULY lights you up, but personal style does not feel intuitive to you.
Figuring out what to wear and where to find it is exhausting. You may feel shame from not being able to "get it right" and, as such, you are in a constant state of uncertainty. You have so many conundrums and very few concrete answers so every purchase is saddled with anxiety and a narrative of questionable worthiness.
Perseverators feel "dis-ease" when it comes to their wardrobes, which drives you to purchase (and return) with frequency. In fact, you feel like you are in a never-ending cycle of purchase/keep/return analysis, spending a lot of time and energy on a wardrobe that doesn't feel like it fully represents you.
At times (or often) you may experience a ”fitting in” approach to fashion, feeling like you have to keep up with trends to quiet your imposter syndrome, and this can be SO EXHAUSTING because you feel like nothing ever looks quite right.
You dream of having the freedom of certainty and a wardrobe that feels soul-aligned. Where getting dressed for an event is energizing and in flow. A life where you feel prepared, confident and celebrated in your fashion choices.
The good news, Perseverator, is that there are strategies that can quantum leap you into the LIBERATED, SOVEREIGN, EMPOWERED version of yourself that is so ready for her debut.
TOOLS & TIPS TO SHIFT YOUR VIBE TO THRIVE
PRACTICE THE PAUSE
When you are contemplating a purchase, check in with yourself. Take note of your narrative. What is the story you are telling yourself when you are operating from a place of impulse or feeling anxiety about the purchase & return process?
BUILD AWARENESS
Building awareness around your hesitations is one of the most effective ways to shift into confidence. Getting curious will help you to identify when your nervous system is dysregulated, and put stop gaps in place to support your healing.
IDENTIFY THE SHIFT
Identify the payoff that you are seeking by filling in the blanks: If I buy __________ I will feel ________________.
Understanding the emotional motivator(s) for the purchase will help you highlight opportunities for growth.
CONNECT WITH INTUITION
Let your intuition guide you in your purchasing process. Focus on how you feel in each potential item. Does the piece feel expansive and energizing? Do you feel calm? Or are you creating "SHOULD BE, SHOULD DO, SHOULD HAVE" scenarios in your head?
ROOT INTO INTUITIVE STYLE
"When you stand for nothing, you fall for everything". Being firmly rooted in your Intuitive Style will give you the strength and stability to make fashion choices that feel aligned to your authentic style and lifestyle, allowing you to take what you need and leave the rest.
VISUALIZE YOUR IDEAL WARDROBE
Create a visual inspiration or mood board. What feels expansive and energizing to you? What is most reflective of your Intuitive Style? Select images to define a direction that you would like to move in, and then refine the search to items that light you up and categories that truly work for your lifestyle. This will help you build a solid foundation.
FOCUS ON SELECTIVITY
When trying new items, use the "Love/Don't Love" litmus test. If you truly love the piece, you can consider purchasing it. If you don't love the piece, leave it. Discernment will simplify the process and allow you to build clarity around what truly lights you up. Every purchase is an opportunity to show up for yourself in authenticity, and the more you honor your intuition, the easier it will feel to build a wardrobe that sparks joy.
YOU ARE THE WISEST WOMAN IN YOUR WARDROBE.
BE YOUR OWN FASHION EDITOR.
HARNESS THE POWER OF YOUR INTUITIVE STYLE
Ali Call, Founder and CEO
Wardrobe Consultant by Trade, Capricornian Strategist by Birth, Manifesting Generator by Design, and Emotional Intuitive by Nature.
I have spent the entirety of my life fascinated by the psychology of shopping both personally, as a recovered shopping addict, and professionally, as a stylist who spent the past decade mapping the emotional motivators for my clients’ purchasing patterns.
Supporting women in connecting to intuitive style, healing dysfunctional shopping habits, and purchasing with intention is a purpose-driven pursuit for me, and I am so happy you are here.
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